Truth and reality.
Posted by Aarti on July 21st, 2010 . Filed under: nfns .I’ll admit it.
I was feeling a bit sorry for myself on Monday. Episode 6 of NFNS, where I fell to the bottom after serving up a flavourless curry at Frank Sinatra’s estate, hit me harder than I thought it would. I didn’t go home, thank Goodness. But being confronted with failure, my own failure, at my own hands, no one else’s… well that’s a bitter pill to swallow.
I tried to maintain perspective, imagine what sweet Brianna was going through that week, imagine what all the eliminated contestants had gone through before their last episodes had aired… and that sobered me for sure. But then, with the morbid curiosity that only someone who subconsciously enjoys self-flagellation has, I went trawling through the blogs, reading people’s reactions. Why, oh why do I do that? You guys send me the most warm, supportive, wonderful comments ever, but isn’t it just like us to be come undone after ONE negative comment? No? Is it just me?
I’ve also been struggling with the pains of being honest on a reality show.
I just stopped for a second to re-read that sentence.
I mean, while it is reality after all, it’s still a game, right? The only way I knew how to play was to be full-on honest at every turn. During evaluation that night, I remember feeling spent. And I told them that. I told them that I was knackered, physically, emotionally, creatively… I knew that I would get over it, but just for that day, for that challenge, I had done the best I could to survive, not necessarily to win. Each one of us had hit that same wall at one point that week, where we weren’t sure if we could go on — you saw herb’s the week before. Funnily enough, Herb and I were bearing through some of the same issues: should I be here? Can I do this? Do I even want to win?
Why enter if you don’t want to win, you ask? Well, perhaps because you know you should do this, that it’s the logical next step to getting to your dream job. Or because your friends and family believed in you so much that it overcame your own insecurities in applying — that once the ball got rolling, you knew you couldn’t stop, or else you’d disappoint so many people, including yourself. Because you knew you needed to challenge yourself, or else you’d stay stagnant for the rest of your life. And you’d already stayed stagnant for the past 5 years. It sucked.
But once you get into the competition, and you’re all by yourself, confronting your demons without the army of friends and family to fight for you, you start to weary. You doubt the process, start to doubt whether the win is really what you want, or is really worth all the anxiety and fatigue. “How badly do you want to win?” the producers would ask over and over again in the interview room, and I’d trot out some answer to satisfy, but deep down I wasn’t sure. The reality of winning, of having my cooking show on Food Network, was such a pipe dream, that I couldn’t wrap my fingers around it to figure out if it was really something I wanted, at this price at least. I mean, why is this such a hard question to answer? Holy carp, there are literally millions of people in America who would leap at the chance to have their own cooking show! Why am I asking myself this question??! What’s wrong with me? And the cycle would continue.
So when Bobby pounced on my feeble (but honest!) answer that day, and said that he wasn’t sure he’d want me on his team if I didn’t want to win… I totally understood. And when I found myself at the bottom, I wasn’t entirely surprised. Heck, somewhere deep down, I heard that nasty voice say, well this is where you belong sweetheart. But what I WAS surprised about was how I felt during the deliberation. There’s nothing like facing the threat of a dream being taken away from you, to make you realise how much you want it. Being on the bottom that week was actually a gift. I sat there, clutching my cross, knowing that the committee was losing their patience with me, that I could go home because Brianna’s food was amazing, and Herb’s charisma was electric… but I didn’t want to go home. I wanted to stay.
That night, I lay on the couch in the living room, wrapped in a blanket as the guys played poker. I must have had a forlorn look on my face because as Brad walked into the living room, he said, “You. Outside. Now.” He proceeded to give me a pep talk worthy of any good 80′s movie. I’m not undercutting it. It was great. “You’re the only one here who has it all going on: personality, cooking chops and strong POV. You have a powerful smile. And if you don’t get your s*** together now, I’m nipping at your heels, and I’m going to take you out,” he said with that cocky, but sweet smile that only Brad could give you. I will never forget that pep talk. Brad really is as adorable as he seems.
On an aside, Brad and I started talking about God, whether He existed, and if so, what the heck He wanted out of us, and just as Brad said something about seeing God’s hand in nature, a gorgeous coyote padded silently by us. We went silent too, hoping the coyote wouldn’t notice us. Just then, he turned his head, and looked directly at Brad for a second. Then he turned back to his path, and padded on. We both let out our breath, not realising we’d been holding it that whole time. Coincidence? You decide.
Anyway, back to the future, ie this week. Having watched the show, read the blogs and generally put myself in a state of malaise, I needed a pick-me-up, a perspective-shifter. As golden hour struck, pouring her flaxen rays through my window, I spotted a letter on my counter from a 7-year old girl named Danielle. It had come in the mail a couple of days prior, but I’d wanted to take photos of it before I opened it, so I’d left it there for another day.
There’s nothing like a child to pull you right out of your self-flagellating trance, and remind you that it’s really not all that important. Check these out:
She drew me a picture. Spitting image I’d say!
And then she wrote me a letter:
I love this part:
And just like that, I was whisked out of my dark place, and into a place where if this was all I ever got out of this whole experience, it would be worth it. Thank you so much Danielle! The light of your letter pulled me out of my dark spell!
-x-
aarti
p.s. I wrote a bit more about last week’s episode for the blog, LAist, and tried to dispel some myths about curry. Check it out!
July 21st, 2010 at 3:02 pm
wow what a great post aarti. out of the mouths of babes indeed. you are an inspiration and everything we’ve beared witness to that you have gone through in so many many ways is helping people whether you know it or not.
brave brave girl. i love you!
xxxx L
July 21st, 2010 at 3:08 pm
I will be very surprised if you don’t win. I have a gift for selecting reality show winners (cooking and talent based), and I have you pegged to win. Not only that, but I have recently (through your fan page on Facebook) become acquainted with your faith (which I hope to see come out more on NFNS), and I know God has big plans for you. Even if you don’t win, you will WIN. You CAN do it. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. You have a fantastic personality, you are cute as a button (LOVE the flowers), you have mad skills, and a very refreshing POV that I think FN is looking for. Just watch Brad and Aria, as they round out my top 3!
July 21st, 2010 at 3:10 pm
Hi Aarti. We are watching NFNS with my son who is nine and we think you are wonderful! We are so rooting for you.
July 21st, 2010 at 3:22 pm
That is the cutest sweetest thing!!!!!
July 21st, 2010 at 3:33 pm
Aarti,
And then this letter?? OMG bring out the tissues! Children always tell it like it is, good or bad, so you know this is pure.<3
OMG I am in tears right now! How sweet of Brad to pull you aside and lift you up. You two are my favorites….so it is good to know you are also good people!
Don't worry about having those thoughts about not being in it to win it….look at Adam Gertler! Remember life doesn't always take you on the path you thought you would be on, but you always end up exectly where you're supposed to be!
XOXO,
Heather
July 21st, 2010 at 3:50 pm
When you hear ‘that voice’ starting to feed your subconscious with doubt and fear, it is The Enemy talking, Aarti. He knows your weakness and loves to exploit it. Stop *listening* to ‘yourself’ and start *talking* to ‘yourself’ (I say ‘yourself’ because it isn’t your voice, it’s the enemy’s voice!). Tell yourself what you do know – the truth. You are a complete work in Christ, you were created in His image, and you can do ALL things through Him who strengthens you. It is easy to defeat the enemy with the Word – Jesus did just that – ‘it is written’.
July 21st, 2010 at 4:21 pm
Aarti!
Please remember you’re bringing people together every week, not just at your house, but all over the country. We’re all rooting for you and wish you all the best with NFNS!
I’m so glad that you and Brad shared such a beautiful, heavenly experience together! SaraT is right, you are a wonderful person who lives His will and deserve this opportunity of a lifetime to reach the hearts millions of people. It’s cheesy, I know, but that saying (admittedly a broader interpretation) “Best way to a man’s heart is his stomach,” couldn’t be truer. One of the best places we all come together is around the table sharing a meal!
Stay strong,
<3 Jen
July 21st, 2010 at 4:46 pm
Aarti, I have great faith in your generous spirit as it shines through on NFNS AND in your creativity in the kitchen and elsewhere. Let your true nature shine on as you move through the competition and the judges will see what those who love and support you see.
July 21st, 2010 at 4:59 pm
Aarti,
Did you happen to look at the Food Network results for the fan vote?
http://www.foodnetwork.com/the-next-food-network-star-fan-vote-results/package/index.html
WE ALL LOVE YOU!!! Never feel bad for being real. We all relate to you and what your process has been and that is why we want you to win. People like Chef Flay who supposedly have no doubts and are so driven are great…but that does not have to take anything from you. Do not let their appearance of complete confidence make you feel like less of a competitor. I happen to believe that those who are honest about their feelings and their fears are a lot braver than those who plow through assuming that they have it all together.
As for me and my house….we all hope you win!!! Keep being that bright spot in life no matter what. If you win NFNS GREAT…if not…this is just the beginning for you, and I will look forward to seeing where you go.
July 21st, 2010 at 5:37 pm
Aarti
you’ve got everything you need to win, because you’ve got your eyes on Jesus. He didn’t let you get to this point to let you fail, and even if He doesn’t have winning NFNS in his plan for you, you can bet there is something even better waiting for you!! Don’t put your confidence in yourself, draw your confidence from what God is doing through you, you are touching SO MANY people and who knows where thats going to take you!! Stay strong in the Lord girl, I’m rooting for ya!!
July 21st, 2010 at 5:51 pm
Aarti! I’ve been routing for you from the start. I rarely comment on anyone’s blog, or jump on as a fan of reality show stars, but I think you’re awesome and really talented! Brad, the judges, etc. are all right, you have an amazing smile and personality that lights up the room and you’d make an amazing cooking show. So keep on going because I’m excited to keep watching you! Hopefully, there will also be more of you once TNFNS is over.
And yes, I know that God exists, and I truly believe he places us where we are for a purpose, even if it’s something that we may not be able to see and understand at the moment. So make Him proud girl!
July 21st, 2010 at 5:55 pm
I hope you are getting paid well for that Heinz 57 advertisement. It’s annoying as all get out BUT I like your site so much that I stay on it anyway to read your posts.
You appear to be a genuine kind person and my son his girlfriend and I all hope you’ll win!
July 21st, 2010 at 6:00 pm
Hi Aarti! Great post. (By the way, I’m commenting as my husband, because I am unable to comment under my own account on your blog for whatever reason. Not a stalker, I promise. Just a fan!) It’s fun to know what you are thinking about the episodes. Brad was right. You are the obvious choice for a winner and I want to see you have a show on Food Network and I keep waiting for you to say “ridonkulous” during a camera challenge. That would seal the deal! Go team Aarti! –Gina
July 21st, 2010 at 6:15 pm
What a beautiful, honest post. AND Danielle completely flipped out just knowing you *received* her letter and then when I told her you blogged about it and posted pics, my goodness, she reacted the way most 7yos would act w/ the same thing happening w/ Miley Cirus! LOL (And, of course, we are thrilled she looks up to *you* instead
The rest of the household are equally enamored with you …
We continue to look forward to each coming episode of NFNS so we can root for you – our #1 Fave! Thank you so much for your graciousness. You created a memory for a young girl that I am sure will last a lifetime …
With love from all of us x
July 21st, 2010 at 6:30 pm
Aarti– I have neve posted on a stranger’s blog. Especially one the entire nation is getting to know! But I have to thank you. I am almost done with my phd. It has been my dream for as long as I can remember. As I get closer and closer, I have more and more doubts about my smarts and whether or not I have been working so hard for the right thing. I understand your struggles with doubt and believing in yourself. Thank you for being so honest about your struggles and for allowing us to see you fight through them. You are not alone in struggling, relying on God, and wanting something more. And you are inspiring to so many of us.
July 21st, 2010 at 6:50 pm
I can understand the feeling of being unsure about whether or not you really want to win, especially in the midst of competition – I’m sure that any expectations I have about what it would be like would be completed twisted and shattered within 24 hours of being there – in both good and bad ways. Whenever you try a new experience, you always come to a point where you need to decide if you want to keep pushing on and reaching for the final goal, or you realize it’s not really what you want to do. It’s not a bad thing if it’s the latter, because the whole experience is just as important as the final result.
And I know you know even the times when you might be separated from your friends and loved ones, you are never truly alone. You are are in the hearts, minds and prayers of people who you know and love, as well as friends you have yet to meet.
July 21st, 2010 at 6:56 pm
Your love of life and light and love and the exploration of it all just makes me love you all the more. I’m so glad that Sweet Little Danielle and her letter cheered you up! Her letter and art is fantastic.
The judges all clearly love you, I just know that they want the best from you and they’re going to make sure you bring it. Oh God, the places you will go after this show! It’s amazing to think of all the possibilities that are out there for you.
Love you lots!
July 21st, 2010 at 7:30 pm
oh sweet Aarti! I love how real you are – love this post and how Jesus works through little girls and coyotes…
Brad is right – you do have it all going on … and if Jesus has it for you to win, you WILL do so girl! Rest in that fact and just be the beautiful, fun girl He made you to be! I only JUST saw that you were on NFNS and posted it on my FB page – I am praying for you sis!
July 21st, 2010 at 7:46 pm
Love this post, Aarti. It’s so heartfelt and well-written. My husband and I are totally rooting for you. Wish we could offer our support during the actual shooting!
I completely understand the highs and lows you were going through while on the show – the self-doubt, the worry about whether your dream is really worth this struggle or not, and the questioning over whether you have talent or if you’re a total fake. I’m a writer and I deal with this every day (though not on camera! I don’t know how you do that!). You just keep doing what you do because you love it. There’s no option to quit.
We hope you make it all the way to the final and beyond. We spent a lot of time in London over the past three years, and we’re dying to learn how to make good Indian food in the States. (Okay. My husband is dying to learn. He’s the cook in the family.
)
Anyway, hope to see you on air in the future. If not, I’ve got your blog on my RSS reader.
Sandy
July 21st, 2010 at 7:53 pm
You are completely precious! So the FN has done the finale differently for the past few years – when is the finale this year?? When will you know the outcome? It’s all you girl, I am certain!
July 21st, 2010 at 7:53 pm
Beautiful truth here Aarti. Thank you for being so honest and open. Fun to hear a bit of behind the scenes stuff and know that you all have formed such bonds with one another. That letter is really special. Children are amazing beings… so much smarter than the rest of us. I am trying to work out how to help them from losing that! Looking forward to watching how the rest of NFNS unfolds. Rooting for you all the way!
July 21st, 2010 at 8:03 pm
and P.S.: I didn’t mind the Heinz 57 bit at all. I enjoy learning how to take conventional pantry/fridge items and adding them to recipes …
July 21st, 2010 at 8:06 pm
I just wanted to tell you that you are my favorite on the show and I am rooting for you all the way. I just adore you and I am so glad to have found your blog.
You rock on, girl!!
July 21st, 2010 at 8:14 pm
Love, love, love the Brad interaction.
You are where you are for a reason. Hugs and prayers!!
July 21st, 2010 at 8:26 pm
oh my gosh, that made me cry. i love how children can apply a gentle slap in the face (or arse) when we need it to help us wake up. that’s one of the reasons why i love working with kids. their honesty keeps us alive. you are doing so great on the show and i appreciate your honesty. it is after all a reality show. i am so FREAKIN’ PROUD of you.
i hope you know that. not everybody can do what you are doing. don’t ever forget that. and just remember that the arse holes that provide you less than positive comments on websites/blogs have a sickness that makes them want to be just plain out mean…and most of the time, i don’t think they really even mean it. they’re just doing it because they can do it anonymously. the downside of the internet.
love, love & kisses.
~bernies
July 21st, 2010 at 9:56 pm
I love this. You are such an inspiration to me, and to so many of us. Love you big!
July 21st, 2010 at 11:10 pm
What a beautiful blog entry Aaru. It takes a lot of courage and honesty to open your heart and spill your guts out (not that it is anatomically possible) in the way you have done, to practically the whole world. You are a bigger and greater person for having done so. Dad and I, our hearts are bursting with pride for you. Yes like Kuv said it brought tears in my eyes.
I love the all the the wonderful comments that have been made so far, I am absolutely many more will follow. They are really words of comfort, encouragement, appreciations, support and love shown from our father in Heaven through them. To crown them all the letter from Danielle – yes you should frame the letter.
As all the commentators have said, not only your cooking skills and creativity have shone through, but also the wonderful person you are; the heart of compassion is one of the greatest gifts God could have given you and it was lovely to see it. God Bless you always.
May the “Morning Star” guide you, as you do your best to become the next Food Net Work Star.
Love and Hugs.
July 21st, 2010 at 11:40 pm
this was my favorite post of yours!!! your amazing! i want you to win so bad, not because i know and love you, but because i really believe that your the best. i hope that you have the confidence in yourself that i have in you…that all your family, friends and followers have in you!!!!
big giant hug,
bre
July 22nd, 2010 at 12:25 am
Aarti, you are an inspiration to me. you are really good and I know you will do well. Keep up the good work and stay strong and focussed. you can do this. Cheers!
July 22nd, 2010 at 3:58 am
You’re already a winner in my book but I so look forward to a new cooking show featuring you! And you encourage me too, since i recently started my own business and often find myself wallowing in major doubt, wondering what the heck I’m doing. Thanks for being real and transparent! You have what it takes.
July 22nd, 2010 at 5:20 am
I appreciate your transparency, and I can relate to so much of what you say! Thanks for sharing both the ups and the downs.
July 22nd, 2010 at 6:00 am
I love reading your blog! Thanks for being so real and reminding the rest of us to keep going when we feel that way- although probably on a much smaller scale! I’m rooting for you! And Danielle, you’re awesome, girl! : )
July 22nd, 2010 at 7:41 am
Aarti, I’ve enjoyed watching you compete since the first episode of NFNS and I have been rooting for you since Day 1. I love your look, your voice, and your food. I’m a food blogger, too (I don’t have the huge following you have) and my dream is to cook for a living, even if not on television. I even wrote about you on my blog. You have what it takes to do this, even if it’s not through NFNS.
I agree with others… as we get closer to achieving our dreams “the enemy” goes to work to make us doubt ourselves. Stop reading comments from haters on other blogs.
July 22nd, 2010 at 8:55 am
Wow. Thank you for sharing yourself. The coyote was a “Godincidence”. Remember the devil comes to kill, steal, and destroy, God gives life…go out there and always do your best to what your hand finds to do. We love you and are looking forward to more of you.
P.S. We loved the BLC. Yummy!
July 22nd, 2010 at 9:06 am
You always write from the heart too … your points about being stagnant and letting the self-doubt creep in. That hits home. In a big way! So thank you for the push.
In the meantime I made your tandoori chicken with scallion blinis and it rocked! My husband loved it! So much so that it’s what’s on the menu when I next make dinner for his team (a bunch of big military guys who can eat & then some
July 22nd, 2010 at 10:25 am
Aarti,
What a beautiful ray of light you are! We erupted into applause and cheering this past episode. You are a divine inspiration and I love that I get to also call you a friend!
Thank you for this lovely entry.
xoxo
Sara
July 22nd, 2010 at 2:43 pm
Aarti, you are so awesome!
I love your blog, and I love watching you on the next food network star. I’ve got my fingers crossed for you to win! You are great, you are talented, and it really comes through that you’re a sweet, beautiful person!
I’ve always been really, really insecure, but you’ve inspired me to try to bust out of my shell. Best of luck to you!
July 22nd, 2010 at 2:50 pm
Aarti! I love this!!! God is so good!!! <3
Paula
July 22nd, 2010 at 2:58 pm
I just wanted to add to the outpouring of love and support: The moment you get kicked off this show is the moment I stop watching. I might even stop watching Food Network entirely. You are the total package: Your food rocks, you have an amazing perspective and point of view (totally unique as far as FN is concerned), and your personality, honesty, warm-heartedness, and passion come out in the most genuine way imaginable. Anyone who doesn’t see how awesome you are needs a reality check (that includes the evil voices in your head when you doubt yourself). Aarti all the way!!
July 22nd, 2010 at 3:00 pm
Aarti,
I’m not sure how many episodes ahead they have filmed of NFNS, you may already know something we don’t. But at this point, I just want to tell you how happy I am for you that you made it this far. I have been rooting for both you and Herb from the beginning so the end of the latest episode was stressful to watch.
I feel bad for Brianna, but she had to go. I’m not sure if the show manipulated us as viewers but the whole Brianna war against Serena thing was painful to watch. It made Brianna seem ungenuine. Not the kind of person who deserves such a good opportunity.
As I said, I’m not sure if you are still filming NFNS but if you are, please realize you belong there. Brad is right. You are the only person so far who has a culinary point of view and you seem comfortable in the kitchen and behind the camera. You are really fun to watch. Don’t let your mind play tricks on you. If this is still really what you want then go for it!!
I for one don’t think the food network is representing Asia very well. I am not Asian, but I love indian food and would love to have some on screen mentors who could teach me about indian, thai, chinese, japanese or vietnamese flavors. Food network doesn’t realize that while we think a competition or two is fun, we are really tuning in to see the cooking shows and you would make a really great hostess.
Good luck!
Mimi
July 22nd, 2010 at 3:24 pm
I think viewers often forget that cooking is not an exact science. There will be good days and bad days because we are only human.
It is refreshing to hear your stories about what went ended up on the cutting room floor. All of the backstabbing drama that goes on most reality show competitions are a big turn off. It is nice to hear that a true sense of camaraderie was in the house.
July 22nd, 2010 at 5:05 pm
Aarti,
We all have our days that things just don’t work out. I was thinking while watching that if you left, I’d stop watching the show. It has been great to see an Indian perspective at the food network. I can’t imagine there are people who don’t know about the richness of Indian flavors and spices–but surprising there are a lot of them out there. LOL I can’t wait for you to show them that Indian food can be fun and easy to make to give you such a diversity of flavors not just spiciness. I’m rooting for you!!! Good luck next week!
July 22nd, 2010 at 8:33 pm
Hey Aarti,
. Also, I know as bad as you are hurt you will bounce back next week and the judges will see the talent and honesty you have in you. I am really hoping that you are THE NEXT FOODNETWORK STAR 
We are all rooting for you. love ya; Don’t forget you are an inspiration for people like us 
All the Best!
I want to start off saying that my kids and myself are a big fan of ur cooking channel. I bumped into ur channel just few weeks before you announced that you will be on NFNS. When I read that you had something to share with us, I just thought “will she be on the NFNS???” and Yes! you announced shortly, I went crazy as though you are my family and I had guessed it right for you and almost felt like calling you and say I knew it (or I told you so)! All this I want to share with you because I had seen something in you that I was not wrong in thinking that you would be selected for NFNS. You have Charisma, Compassion, Talent and most of all Originality in you and was very happy n glad that the selection team had seen that too, as you deserve it. The show is really awesome, this is the first NFNS show I am watching and it is fun. After every show I want to write to you and say actually you are rock’n girl just keep rolling n’ you will be on the top before you know. Reading some of the comments you received I knew my msg was passed, this time around too I see so many of your awesome viewers already have left neat comments but felt that I need to write to you anyways and all I want to say is we want more people who can talk from their hearts and be themselves and you inspire me to be myself and I think that is a very powerful message as we all get lost in the chaotic world around us which we choose and create ourselves (at least most of the time)
July 23rd, 2010 at 7:55 am
Pollyanna was right: there’s always something to be glad about. Be glad that you have doubts and fears and that you don’t have to pretend that you don’t, in order to feel superior. Bobby Flay started out grilling hamburgers for a living. Now, he’s famous for… grilling all kinds of stuff. And his TV persona reads like a spoiled brat with matches and lighter fluid. Yikes!
BTW, I’ve made your ricotta blinis a zillion times! Everyone loves them!
Your the best!
Regards,
Sharron
July 23rd, 2010 at 1:43 pm
Aarti,
My daughter (an aspiring chef) and myself a self taught foodie home gourmet are absolutely in love with you. There is no one I’d rather watch on FN than you, I reallly really want you to get a show because I would love to cook your food and you are such a delight to watch. Have faith in yourself, I see your life as it appears from your videos and it looks like you have a great support system and definitly all the talent in the world. Love your post, I hope you wrote back to the girl. Lots of love,
claudia
July 24th, 2010 at 7:39 pm
From the moment I first set eyes on you, I knew you were a star, so BELIEVE it baby! If your food is half as good as it looks (and by the judges reactions it is even better) you deserve your won show!
BTW, I am a personal chef that prides herself at cooking many international cuisines exceptionally well. I lived in London for many years, and became a huge fan of Indian cuisine, but it is the one cuisine I do not have the patience to master (all the more reason I hope you win). It is just so labor intensive to toast every spice, and make every component from scratch. Your product idea is brilliant. I’d snap that product up in a New York heartbeat. Hope you follow through with it!
July 24th, 2010 at 9:47 pm
Oh my goodness, what a touching post! I personally LOOOOVE Brad (Like, looks wise, not winner wise… that crown belongs to you) and I have noticed you two seem to be such good friends! It is sooo nice to see that, because with most reality shows, you see cat fights (ie. Serena & Brianna) but you my dear keep it real. That coyote story… wow. That was incredible. I don’t know if Brad is a christian, but if not, what a powerful witnessing tool! Love You and keep on being awesome!
Love Sara
PS: Our entire family is rooting for you! My 5 year old sister received a shift dress with a embroidered elephant and beading on it straight from India and she was like, “SARA! I can dress like Aarti!”
July 25th, 2010 at 5:09 pm
There’s a good chance this comment will just get “lost” amongst all your other fan’s words of encouragement, but I couldn’t help sharing a few words of understanding & admiration as well.
I am such a big fan of the show and have come to adore you so much! But for me, my admiration goes beyond your incredible ability to cook creatively and your fun spunk, and on to your sweet and genuine character. Your faith encourages me, and I appreciate that you choose to share these things with the world with boldness. I loved your story about Brad’s pep talk and the spiritual conversation you had following (Brad has always been my second favorite, after you
Anywho, I can totally relate with the feeling of inadequacy and insecurity, but I just wanted to share a few verses that my pastor preached on this morning. His sermon was about how the importance of living in the truth of the Gospel and our adoption into God’s family. Although we don’t always feel like God’s children (and instead chose to live in shame, doubt, fear, insecurity, etc) the fact is that when we trust Christ, we become legal heirs of God and receive the ultimate gift of His very Spirit, strengthening and encouraging us as we live in and live out the truth of His Gospel!
“But when the fullness of time had come, God sent forth his Son, born of woman, born under the law, to redeem those who were under the law, so that we might receive adoption as sons. And because you are sons, God has sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts, crying, “Abba! Father!” So you are no longer a slave, but a son, and if a son, then an heir through God.” -Gal. 4:4-7
So continue to be bold – in the kitchen, on the camera & with your co-contestants. I’ll keep cheering for you!!
July 25th, 2010 at 7:30 pm
Really rooting for you Aarti. Been following NFNS for weeks now, and by the third episode, you became one of my favorites. Your personality is warm and caring, and excellent on camera. You’ll be in my prayers, and I hope that you won. And even if you didn’t, you are still a winner! God bless!
July 25th, 2010 at 9:02 pm
Hey Aarti,
I loved you post. Believe me when I say I feel you. Sometimes, the biggest obstacle to God’s blessings is us. Too often, we need to trust God enough to let God be God and now that if we our eyes on Him, he will lead us where we need to be.
On to another topic-Fried Green Tomatoes
You can cook them on the grill, girl!!! I make them all the time.
Simply bread them as usual, fire up the grill (make sure to coat grill with olive oil) and grill away.
Great smoky taste!!!
July 25th, 2010 at 9:18 pm
Hey Aarti,
I loved you post. Believe me when I say I feel you. Sometimes, the biggest obstacle to God’s blessings is us. Too often, we need to trust God enough to let God be God and know that if we keep our eyes on Him, he will lead us where we need to be. He is good that way.
On to another topic-Fried Green Tomatoes
You can cook them on the grill, girl!!! I make them all the time.
-First slice the tomatoes, season to taste ( I use salt, pepper, and a pinch of red pepper)
-Next coat tomatoes with egg
-Then bread with your choice of breading- I use corn meal that I season with a little seasoned salt or lemon pepper or both.
-Lightly brush the tomatoes with olive oil.
-Fire up the grill (make sure to coat grill with olive oil) and grill away.
Great smoky taste!!!
God Bless,
D-
July 25th, 2010 at 9:55 pm
Aarti,
I wasn’t sure why I dvr’d this season of NFNS but I saw a few previews and thought the personalities looked like fun, especially yours. I saw a few episodes thought you were darling. Then I was working at the Vintage Hollywood event in June because I’m on the committee, and there you were! I deduced you were with your husband and again, felt like there was something special about you. I just saw a quick moment of you reading the Bible and then went searching and found this blog. I now know it’s because we’re sisters in Christ! What a sweet gift. Keep resting in who your Creator made you to be, have a blast and live bodly! Winning the show would be incredible (and I hope it for you) but you’re the daughter of the King, in love with a wonderful man and you obviously have a great family/community…girl, you are the winner!
Abundant blessings!
Candy
July 25th, 2010 at 11:44 pm
I’m so happy I found this page, thank to you Aarti!
I love to watch you and I just LOVE what you cook.
I love Indian food so I’m so happy I found you!.
God Bless you.
Christine
July 26th, 2010 at 4:52 am
Don’t get down! Everyone has an off day, although most off our off days aren’t broadcasted on national television! You have a great personality and all my family agrees that you’d be the best food network star! Indian food can be really daunting when it comes to cooking and you explain things really well. I’ve even downloaded your recipe of chicken tandori for one of the first episodes, although i haven’t fixed it yet, I’m really excited to try!
Know that you have so many people backing you!
July 26th, 2010 at 9:37 am
AARTI!!!!!!!!!! my husband and i are addicted to the show, and cheer you on from our living room in Oklahoma!!! we were thrilled to see you win both challenges last night!!!! you were amazing and are definitely raising the bar of the competition!!!!
you are such a joy to watch and knowing your relationship with Father and how you are giving Him all praise, is lovely!!!
July 26th, 2010 at 11:39 am
We knew you’d bounce back!! My husband and I were rooting for you like you were our favorite sports team while enjoying your recipes for sticky lamb chops, roasted cauliflower steaks and massaged kale salad-all were fabulous and we were so excited to see you come out on top! Can’t wait to try your green chicken curry and quinoa with all bran-you are a real inspiration and we know you’re going to win!!
July 26th, 2010 at 7:05 pm
I’m crying, really crying! Thank you for your honesty and your faith. Last week while I was on vacation my domain name was swiped. Not a big deal really, but still Heidi’s Full Plate was mine. For the past year I cooked and photographed and cooked some more and thought about life and wrote and somehow created a blog. Not a super blog, but people would stop me and say, “Hey I made your . . . and it was so good!” My first thought was, if my domain name is gone, I’m done blogging. My little son said, “Mommy, are you sad about your bwog?” So cute! After a brief pity party I got a new name, kept on blogging, and watched NFNS. Even before I read this post, I was so happy to see you shining on the show and was so glad you had battled some more demons to do so. I don’t know you, but I send my love!
July 26th, 2010 at 7:22 pm
Hi, Aarti! you are my very favorite contestant and I have a few things to say: First of all, your lack of self confidence was sabotaging you! I especially believe in you! I hope that you win and if you do I will watch forever. Second of all, your personality just makes me want to here you talk for hours on end. I’m a young amateur chef (by amateur I mean cooking at home with my mom) and I love getting recipes from you! It’s just a delight to see you cook and I’d love to learn how to cook Indian food.
Thanks for listening and by the way, your blog is one of the things that inspires me to keep cooking (along with Julia Child’s cookbooks and my mother’s support) and I want to thank you for that. Think confidence, Aarti!
July 27th, 2010 at 9:36 am
First, you’re wonderful. Truly wonderful. Love watching you on NFNS and so do my kids. We’re all rooting for you.
Second, so what if you don’t win? Look at the other contestants. Many of them got dream jobs in food – some with the Food Network. You’ve already crossed that hurdle.
Of course, as I write this, I realize the show has already been shot and all, but you should know that you really bring something unique and wonderful to the show and to the network!
July 27th, 2010 at 4:12 pm
Aarti,
I found you through web surfing and know you through your blog and show rather than Food Network. I shut off my TV years ago because I could no longer handle the petty, shallow, mean-spirited shows, situations and people that populate the vast majority of the TV landscape.
You are a blessed exception, heartfelt, real, and a beautiful presence. You have great courage. I would love to see you as a Food Network star! To know someone of your caliber made it! I’ll be keeping an eye on your site for updates. I want to celebrate when you win. Then I’ll buy your shows and your books!
July 28th, 2010 at 8:16 am
Aarti,
He seems awesome as well.
The judges get on you for not being a barracuda, someone competitive enough to throw everyone under the bus given the chance. As someone who has been told that I don’t have that “killer instinct,” I believe there is an audience hungry for someone with a beautiful spirit AND good recipes. I watch some other shows but feel that the personalities can be a detriment (I love some of Bobby Flay’s recipes, but he comes across as an arrogant jerk and not someone I’d want to know.)
I know the show is already over, and I sincerely hope that you are the winner. Your recipes are the ones I want to try, and yours is the personality I would watch every week. Keep your chin up – your honesty and your attitude are incredibly refreshing and your beautiful spirit shines through.
Wouldn’t it be fun if you and Brad shared a show?
July 28th, 2010 at 9:17 am
Hi Aarti,
I just wanted to say that from the beginning, I thought you should be the Next Food Network Star. You have a fantastic personality, great recipes and skills and I can listen to your accent forever! Plus I love your hair flowers
Have confidence because you are the best on the show and I hope the judges see that.
Good Luck!!
Can’t wait till the end of the show to find out….
Ellen
August 1st, 2010 at 7:59 pm
Hi Aarti,
My wife Dipali and myself watch the cooking channel and are following the Next Food Network Star challenge. We truly believe you have a very good chance to win the Next Food Network Star Challenge. We thought of giving you some inputs which you may use in the final four remaining contests.
Do’s & Don’ts:
1. Do not ever be “negative” or sound negative even if your camera challenge or your food has not gone the way you wanted to be.
2. Remember, it I more about “TV AND CAMERA”. The reality is “no one tastes your food” once you win . It’s a show. People watch and “hear” what you say.
3. Conversely, be extremely positive. Spin everything even the worst cooked dish into something positive. Remember none of the Judges like to hear “negative talk” or “negative personality”
4. Aria : they say is “camera ready” . so even if her food sucks, she can take away the Top post from you. You are “camera ready too”. But they want to see the following things in you.
a. Confidence.
b. Optimism, Positive talk.
5. When you get judged at the end : Try to reply as simply as you can. Keep it short and simple. Remember already they don’t like it and by talking or defending you go down further especially if you talk negative. Say, yes I messed up or yes it was a tough challenge or tough ingredient. Instead of saying things like what you said “today” when there were five of you remaining.
6. The contest will be between you and Aria and all you have to do is – Cook good food. Don’t make BIG mistakes. Be positive and be confident.
7. Choose if it’s on your hands – dishes or foods which are not tricky or where big chefs can catch you. Like fish or beef which can be raw, half cooked etc etc etc…
8. We wish to see you win this challenge and then watch you on your own show. So hope the above helps you. Good luck…
Regards,
Dipali & Nilesh
dipa...@gmail.com
August 1st, 2010 at 10:43 pm
You are unique to the Food Network. There’s another Aria, Tom and Herb, but nothing like Aarti! You have to believe in yourself like all of us do. YOU WILL DO THIS! You’ve run out of time, Aarti. THIS IS YOUR CHANCE! Girl you have got to hang on and hang on with all of your might! You are supposed to do this and you are supposed to win! Your food is good, your personality and charisma are tops and your stories are heart felt and bring everyone of us into your home and kitchen. Keep us there! WIN! WIN! WIN! Picture this in your heart and mind and keep God right there with you and there is no way you can go wrong. Peace, Diana
August 2nd, 2010 at 3:46 pm
After reading this article, I just want to say that I believe there are no such things as coincidences…there is a bigger plan for you, which we don’t always understand.
My husband and I have been “chearing” for you since the first episode of TNFNS. Since the show, we have found your “You-Tube” seasons and are so impressed with your ability!
Thanks for showing how fun cooking can be!!!!
You go Girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
August 2nd, 2010 at 8:18 pm
Hi Aarti, my family loves you on the Next Food Network Start, and we hope you win. When you came on the most recent show, my three and a half year old said,”she’s precious, she’s cute!” I’m so glad he likes you too. You have an instant likability; I really hope we get to see a lot more of you.
August 10th, 2010 at 3:34 pm
Oh that was so sweet of this 7 yr old child to poor out her heart to you in a letter. I’m so glad she did and gave you the encouragement you needed to to press on! Now, you know Aarti, you cannot fool a child. They can see through any thing that isn’t REAL…..and you seem like such a real and genuine sweet and very talented woman! I’m cheering for YOU to win!
Lee Ann
August 11th, 2010 at 10:18 pm
August 14th, 2010 at 9:49 pm
Aarti,
This was wonderful. YOU are wonderful. Thankyou!
-Nastasia, 16
August 16th, 2010 at 8:56 pm
what a beautiful note from a child to remind you how precious life truly is. thank for for sharing your honest thoughts and emotions. you are a true inspiration for those following the path (bumpy and all) to their dream. thank you.
August 18th, 2010 at 6:46 pm
hi aarti my name is rosalind , and despite being eleven i love to cook and write my own recipes. i am so glad you won next food network star and i might be one of your biggest fans . my mom and i have been rooting for you every episode of nfns. you can email me back if you like and i can give you my signature recipe
all the best
rosalind
August 18th, 2010 at 7:48 pm
Today I couldn’t decide which recipe to try and make for my husband. I wanted Fish Tacos but then I also wanted to try the Friday Shrimp you made on the iron chef challenge. So, I made both and they were absolutely delicious. Thank you for the recipes. I am definitely going to try more of your recipes and I am very anxious to watch your first show.
August 19th, 2010 at 8:40 am
Aarti, I loved this post and it spoke so much about you and Brad. I am happy you won. I love your blog and am glad you are continuing it. Good Luck in everything you do.
August 19th, 2010 at 9:39 am
I was a fan of yours from Day 1. Glad you made it and will be watching your show.
August 20th, 2010 at 8:23 pm
Aarti,
I am soo happy for you! I feel like I won
. It’s a wonderful thing to catch a glimpse of what God has in store for you and then walk through that door to see if come to full fruition. You are going to be great!
August 20th, 2010 at 10:00 pm
Can’t wait to watch aarti paarti!!!